Kavita Chhibber - February 09, 2006
The one who has been missing for a while
I thought I’d share this interview with Rahul Khanna that I did some time back, since all of you are so fond of him and everyone seems to have enjoyed the interview I posted with Anupam Kher
For the non Indian posters, let me add that both Rahul’s father Vinod and his brother Akshaye are well known actors in Bollywood. Rahul’s father Vinod in fact has been a superstar and a legend on the Indian screen. He has also been consistently voted as one of the handsomest men to ever grace the screen back home(yeah google stalk him by typing Vinod Khanna and you’ll see what I mean). Today he is a well known political figure and a very respected one as well. There is a reason why I’m mentioning Vinod and I’ll get into that a little later. I have interviewed hundreds of people over my career as a journalist, but there are only a handful of celebrities who have touched my heart enough for me to stay in regular contact with them. Rahul is one such person. From the first time I spoke with him, to this day my opinion about the kind of person he is hasn’t changed. He is a thorough professional, meticulous, extremely thoughtful and devastatingly funny. More than his acting and writing prowess, what touches me most is his kindness and humility and the fact that he has always come through when he gives his word for something.
Let me now share the reason why I mentioned Vinod. Many of you who have read my blogs and posts have read about my friend Ajit’s mom Sudha and her battle with breast cancer. When Sudha was diagnosed with it in late December, it took every one by surprise-there was confusion and fear of the unknown. Over the years I heard how Sudha, a shy pretty woman has been a crazy fan of Rahul’s father all her life. You could parade all the hunks before her to this day and she will blush and say-but none of them is like Vinod Khanna.
Well three weeks ago, I landed in Michigan, and surprised Sudha on the dinner table with a very thoughtful handwritten letter from Vinod Khanna. I cannot even begin to describe the look on her face. Not even in her wildest dreams could she have believed that she would be receiving a letter from her heart throb and a very kind and thoughtfully written one at that. The smile didn’t leave her face for the rest of the evening. As we were leaving the restaurant, she forgot the left over food, but she made sure the letter was in her possession. In such a short notice, there was only one person who could have made it possible-Rahul, and I know many blessings will come his way for that. I still tear up when I think of that day and how this thoughtful gesture from both father and son was the light that dimmed the shadow that hung over this family. She has proudly shown that letter to many of her envious friends and relatives.
Thank you Rahul.
Enjoy the interview
“He has been in the limelight since his teenage years as a VJ and a model, before making his acting debut as the shy masseur in Deepa Mehta’s 1947 Earth, but what is perhaps most appealing about Rahul Khanna is his spontaneous child-like laughter, and how lightly he seems to carry fame on his shoulders.
Initially reticent he comes across as very down to earth. While father Vinod and kid brother Akshaye are heating up the celluloid in Bollywood, Rahul is lighting up screens abroad with a Hollywood film, The Emperor’s Club and Deepa Mehta’s frothy fun film Bollywood Hollywood that has been shot in Canada and is doing brisk business both there and in the United States.
He is also a published writer and modestly admits to doodling when asked if it’s indeed true that he is a gifted cartoonist. In this exclusive interview Rahul talks about his journey through life and in the world of acting.
Q-You studied at the Lee Strasburg School of method acting. How was the experience?
I loved the independence and being responsible for myself. I was in an acting school with committed actors and the whole thing was taken very seriously whereas in every day life it is not. I think acting is still looked down upon as a frivolous activity and not a real job or a serious profession. So just to be in an environment where it was taken seriously, treated with so much respect and given so much weight was really exciting, but of course there is also this danger of getting carried away and taking yourself too seriously especially when you are in this exclusive method acting school.
I think I did take the whole process very seriously, but looking back I see it in a more balanced perspective. I studied filmmaking and video as well, because I wanted to get into "what goes on behind the scenes" stuff at the same time. I wouldn’t call myself a method actor though I have studied the method. I think acting can never be taught. It’s a natural talent and you can only learn how to utilize that talent well.
Q-Let’s talk about 1947 Earth your debut film. Was it a tough film to do? You walked away with the Filmfare award for the most promising debut.
I think most of the scenes were difficult. It was winter in Delhi; it was a period film depicting the year 1947 in Lahore. Delhi is not a city that is equipped for film shoots like Bombay is and during the crowd scenes actual riots broke out on the sets and things just got out of hand and it really felt like we were living history all over again. It was my first film and I was so happy and excited to be there. The crew was chosen from the best people in the world and the script was so beautiful.
What I really appreciate about Deepa is her sense of visuals and aesthetics. All her films look really good. She is also very detail oriented to the extent where she would say that I have a smell associated with the character and a color associated with the character. It gives you such a strong foundation to work on. I did a lot of homework as well. I had read up on the partition, my character was a masseur, so I had taken a massage lesson. I had cut myself off from the modern world; I was not watching television or reading newspapers. I was kind of just trying to totally immerse myself into that period.
Q-The lovemaking scene was talked about a lot, but I was surprised by the grace and fluidity with which you used your hands, the little touches. It was very appealing both visually and aesthetically. How much did you improvise?
Most of it was choreographed and everything was rehearsed and if you noticed it was all done in one shot except for one edit, so it was all done in real time. It did cross my mind that this is a man who uses his hands and works with his hands and since I was conscious of it there was some improvisation, though I am surprised how you picked up on that.
The first time I saw 1947, I walked out and called my agent and said I really don’t like the film, and seriously think I am never going to act again. I’m so awful in it; I couldn’t believe the film turned out this way. When I saw it a second time I slowly started making peace with it and eventually I now think it’s a really good film and I am happy to have been a part of it. I think I put pressure on myself by being far too judgmental and trying to meet my own expectations, which are very unrealistic most of the time and I absolutely hate watching myself on screen.
Q-So were you ready to make a fun and frothy film like Bollywood Hollywood with Deepa after the intensity of Earth?
Absolutely and it couldn’t have happened at a better time. I was really looking forward to doing something fun and light. Deepa was a totally different person as well; it was like working with a totally different director. She was much more relaxed. The emphasis was on having fun and every one was having a good time while in1947 Earth even though it was a wonderful experience it was not a fun shoot because it was physically and emotionally very demanding, the conditions were much harder and that permeates into everyone’s mood.
Q-Was it different acting in the Hollywood films like in 3 A.M. and The Emperor’s Club?
Ultimately it’s not that different. They may have better facilities, but basic filmmaking concept was the same. And Bollywood too has become more professional and things work on schedule. I had a very small part in 3 A.M. But I really enjoyed working with Sarita Chaudhary, who I think is a wonderful actress and with whom I had wanted to work for a while. The Emperor’s Club was great fun. I have been a great admirer of Michael Hoffman, the director and had wanted to work with him for many years. He took a lot of time to discuss each role and what I remember most about the film was that we spent a lot of time laughing even after the shooting got over, cracking jokes.
It’s amazing what an education it is working with each director. You learn so much more about yourself, the art, the profession and I don’t think it ever stops and even in a small role you come away with something. I have worked with directors who know exactly what they want and that is the only thing they will allow you to do and I have worked with directors who are open to suggestions. I think it can work well both ways as long as the director is strong in his convictions and is trustworthy.
Q-Faroukh Shaikh(another well respected actor from Bollywood) said you can cheat in television, and theatre but not in films where everything is magnified.
You can cheat in films as well, but in theatre there is no second take. I find theatre much more challenging. It’s tough to compare, but I absolutely love theater. I have done only one play, but it was the best experience of my life. And I also really love films.
Q-In an unpredictable profession where stars are made and fall every Friday what keeps you going?
I don’t think it is anything that you can define. You can’t explain love, it just happens, you just know you are in it and there is nothing you can do about it and I think that is how it feels in this business.
Q-How difficult is it for you not to give in to the temptation and jump on the bandwagon and cash in by signing a ton of films. You seem to be very picky?
I would love to be working much more than I am working, but I also need to really feel a connection with a project before I can commit to it. Working on a film in some ways is like being in a marriage. You don’t see yourself being married to someone who you may have any doubts about your love for; to be trapped in an awful marriage is horrible. Similarly my fear of being trapped in a film I feel no connection with is much greater than my fear of not working.
I am open to all kinds of roles in every different genre as long as it’s a role that excites me and has a director that I respect. I am open to all kinds of cinema and I would love to experiment and try out different things and there is some wonderful work coming out of the Indian commercial cinema today. I am really excited about the new filmmakers who are emerging and taking greater chances and doing different and interesting things.
More than even the directors the brightest patch is the new writer because the film industry and the public is starving for new and original work and it’s really the time of the writer. I think over all, it is an exciting time for Indian cinema.
Q-In life’s journey what are the moments that stand out that have made you the man you are today. How have you changed?
Well nothing momentous comes to mind, but I think even the most trivial things you go through in life contribute to your growth as a person. I think I’m more focused and realistic although I feel I have lost that youthful enthusiasm and exuberance, that bright eyed, bushy tail quality I had. I guess it’s all a part of growing up and you start seeing people and the world for what it really is. I think it’s a little bit of that ignorance and innocence that you have, that is taken away. You just learn to be more worldly wise in dealing with people and conducting yourself.
Q-So is it as cutthroat an industry as it is alleged to be?
Absolutely, but then which industry isn’t?
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Posted by Kavita Chhibber at February 9, 2006 06:01 AM
Dear Kavita,,,wonderful interview with the handsom Rahul Khanna!! What he and his father did, for Sudha; was a superior kindness..it really touched my heart; and I could see the smile on Sudha's face would be wide and so happy!! What a wonderful gesture to do!!
North
Geeta, I thought you were thinking about me.
For that Rahul P, you will have to have a hottie like Vinod Khanna for a dad and write about duels with cockroaches and the loss of your hard drive, instead of Kashmir and Rajasthan:)
geeta will convey your thoughts to the other Rahul- for now you need to pamper the one complaining out here(wink!)
thanks North!
Well Kavita; if you ever want to make my day too; I'd love a letter from Shekhar, Deepak, or Mel Gibson, Anupam Kher(gentle smiles)
Oooh, I"m teasing(not!)
North
ha ha north I'd like a letter from mel gibson too-or may be I'd like mel gibson in person..although I have to say my all time favorite is denzel washington..glad sudha's list was not as long as yours whew1(wiping sweat off my brow!)
well ya know, Kavita; they say IF you are going to manifest, then manifest "big". I figured if I gave a top-3... well, jusssssssst maybe? lol
You know I'm teasing; but, if you could fit Mel in my mail-box, my empire is yours(if I had an empire)..
North
Oh,,,last but certainly not least: Oprah! OK< I was hard on her on the Frey issue; but, she is an angelic/kind woman..I give my heart and all, to people like this.
North
very beautiful gesture from the khannas.thx for bringing it into light, Kavita.
wonderful....some other bloggers here r equally fascinating....like Suchitra....Pallavi...kate ...harb...may be in future u can do an interview with these people....
that hand written letter from Vinod khanna....that is so Cooooooooooooooool!
Rahul Pandita, I was glad to see you are back on the blog. I love your stories. Bless you Rahul.
Thanks everybody. Just got back from a meeting and a great lunch with one of my closest girlfriends.
The best thing about my job is that no two days are the same. Seema,I'm already acting on your suggestion. So far you have read and gotten to know Kaveetaa kaul and Scott's stories. I have also posted anupam and rahul's interviews and my impressions of them, and there is another one of the bloggers who is being profiled in the feb issue of my emag which uploads on the 15th, and I will share that profile too..and ofcourse will try and interview some other equally fascinating people here.
yes that letter from VK was awesome..today sudha is meeting the oncologist to see the mode of treatment he suggests..this is a rare type of cancer..the lymph nodes are clear, but it supposedly doent come thru the nodes but the bloodstream, is aggressive and only 0.2 percent people get it, so treatment and prognosis are all up in the air..but I know every act of kindness, and the love that surrounds her will bring its blessings and good health in its wake.
thank you all
Keeping Sudha's Spirit, close to mine..
Just to share my old thoughts with each:
"June 25/2004
I am between night and day in this hour.....time moves so quickly, I cannot grasp a feather of resting moments. Too fast life moves, each ripple-effect, taking time and energy, sifting my thoughts and my actions, like a daily breeze."
May Sudha feel every cool and warm breeze when she needs feel of them.
North
Oh Kavita, thank you for sharing this!
It's much more meaningful to read the thoughts and words of someone so grand in an interview. Often, reading information from magazines, from sources unknown, could be a true/false thing.
Growing up, in my teens especailly, one of my sister's and I used to frequent the Indian movies almost every weekend. Her favourites were Vinod Khanna and Rishi Kapoor (whom she later named her son after, Rishi), mine was Amitabh Bachchan. It was quite the ritual, usually Sundays...double movie, samousa and chai at intermission, it was GREAT! Later on in life, I was fortunate enough to be an extra in an Indian Film being shot in this city, staring Shashi Kapoor, Parveen Babi, Sharmila Tagore etc...I got to have some conversation with Shashiji during break time, he was very sweet and easy going to talk with. I enjoyed that tremendously!
Parhaps more on this later.
I was just reading, literally a minute ago, Shashi Kapoor is in hospital...healing love and prayers to Shashiji.
"Shashi Kapoor hospitalised!
Press Trust of India | Friday, 03 February , 2006, 18:53
Mumbai:Bollywood yesteryear actor Shashi Kapoor has been admitted in Breachcandy Hospital in South Mumbai and is undergoing treatment for high blood pressure, hospital sources said today.
The 67-year-old Kapoor was admitted a couple of days back as he was suffering from hypertension, family sources said. However, he is much better and doing fine, the hospital sources said, adding he may be discharged in a day or two."
Namaste,
Cinda
Kavita, how good of you to remind us of Vinod Khanna!
I remember Vinod as a very shy and gangly fellow student at St. Xaviers College in Bombay in the early 60's. He was a sweet and earnest young man, qualities that I have since noticed in the personalities of both his sons on the screen.
I left for the West shortly after College, and so never got to see Vinod on film. I am delighted to hear of his gesture in your post. He doesn't seem to have lost any of the sweetness he possessed as a youth.
Two of my poems/designs just made tonight. My son was on the PC... I WAS restless!! lol
I used 3 programs; 2 for the inside designs; and a 3rd for the 2 leather frames.
I put them on my site earlier; thought i"d share with ya'll.
http://xs67.xs.to/pics/06065/poem.exist2.ds.jpg
http://xs67.xs.to/pics/06065/poem.thehour2.ds.jpg
Hope it brings a smile to anyones face.
North
Thanks Ravi, Cinda and North.
ravi, awesome that you knew VK before he became a star. My uncle worked with him in the late nineties after he was elected from Gurdaspur and had only good things to say about him. I dont know akshaye but I can say Rahul is quite his father's son.
Cinda, Shashi Kapoor was I think every one's heartthrob, with his crooked smile and charm. From what I have heard, he didnt quite get over his wife's death and just let himself go. In the past years he had become pretty obese, and obesity as we all know acclerates so many ailments.
North thanks, wonderful.
How is VK now, Kavita? any word on his progressive healing?
And, what project is Rahul working on and where?
North
Hi North,
I'll ask Rahul to respond directly to everyone
Thanks Kavita...wouldn't that be nice? I'm sure Rahul is quite busy right now; with his career, and his Dad's condition..
Please convey our thoughts of prayer and love, to Rahul and his Dad from all of us?
I'm off for the day; spent too much time online yesterday and this morning(eeeek) and am NOW piled with chores up to my knees(ok, not literally)
North
His dad is fine..are you confusing VK with shashi kapoor the other actor who cinda talked about?
Rahul will laways find time to write no matter how busy he is so watch this space
I did indeed, Kavita, confuse the two actors(blush!)
WE are waiting with anticipation of his surprise visit one day, Kavita; he has a good fanship here.
I can't imagine the work/dedication it entails to commit to an acting career!!
I had a taste of theatre arts in high school, and I loved it..found it amazing to portray a "character." wasn't easy, by any means...specially live, onstage: I even got to learn how to fall down stairs without getting hurt; pretty easy really; but, I couldn't do that today though!!
Ok, now don't be working so hard Kavita.. enjoy, go out dancing or something!! all work and no play... (smiles)
North
Thanks North-will take it easy next week after all the deadlines are met on the 15th!
Is that a promise? (giggle)
North
Oh Drats, NO Rahul yet...(smile)
North
Hi North,
have just written to Rahul to respond..hopefully it will be soon..
Hi Kavita, well, we know Rahul must be so busy; and when he does have a moment of time; i'm sure he has better and more pressing things to do than to come online..
but, we wait patiently...
Rahul is worth waiting for(smiles.)
North
Happy Valentines Day, Kavita.
Rahul Khanna, don't work too hard, Happy Valentines Day to you as well..
and to everyone at Intent.
North
You can't be 32645 serious?!?
hi kavita please tell rahul to respond....he's lost some where i guess....its his b'day today...plese we all really miss him.
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You can't be 32645 serious?!?
Happy Valentines Day, Kavita.
Rahul Kha
Hi Kavita, well, we know Rahul must be so busy;
Hi North,
have just written to Rahul to r
Hi Kavita, as I was getting ready to come to work I was thinking about Rahul. I thought of all the fun blogs he has posted, the one about his computer, about the cockroach, and just asking everyone to comment. I was wondering why he is not posting. Everyone enjoyed his blogs. I came to office, I had a few minutes, so here I am checking the blog and you are writing about Rahul. SYNCHRONICITY is amazing!!
If you talk to Rahul tell him we all miss him. By the way I used to think Vinod Khanna as a very handsome and good actor too, so did all my close friends. So we have watched all his movies upto 1976.
God bless you Kavita.