Alison Rose Levy - May 16, 2008
Instead of viewing spirituality as the holiest or the highest, what if we considered it to be a foundational coping skill, a guide for every action in our lives?
That’s just how the teachers at a unique program called Spirituality for Kids (SFK) view spiritual values—not as beliefs we adopt, but as skills we learn because they help us cope. They claim that spirituality can and should be taught; and that (in today’s harsh world) the people most in need of it are children.
Currently offering their special training program to kids (all the way from New York’s Lower Eastside to the Middle East), last week in New York City, a lively team of SFK teachers gave an assembly for adults hosted by designer Donna Karan at the Stephan Weiss studio in New York City. Donna herself is a SFK strong supporter.
“Simple activities can be so powerful and kids really get it,” Donna told me. “As they add their bead to a necklace, they understand that this is my individual bead, but together with all the other beads, there’s a necklace. We’re connected and we need each other. Without the connection, there’s no necklace.”
At her event, panels alternated with exercises, giving adults a taste of the SFK approach. Lighting each other’s candles to share the “inner light,” dialoguing with one’s inner “opponent,” or learning that feeding one’s neighbor was the way to receive nourishment oneself. It may sound silly but it was surprisingly moving even for the cynical among us.
For myself, I’ve spent countless hours in retreats, workshops, and practices, learning these kinds of lessons. But experiencing them in this embodied and playful way was both heart warming and team building. My classmates, adults who regularly practice adult-style spirituality, felt the same way.
Karen Berg, the founder of SFK, (whose husband directs the Kaballah Center) views the program as the vehicle to “give the gift of interconnection.”
“Schools emphasize the skills of reading and writing,” she told the assembly. “But the skills that endow emotional intelligence are equally vital. You carry them into life.”
A recent Rand Corporation study conducted by policy analyst, Sarah Gaillot, found that the SFK’s offerings produce tangible benefits, building in young people four key areas of resilience: in social skill, self-esteem, sense of purpose, and problem solving. Those skills are crucial for all children; but they are especially vital for children facing great duress.
In Malawi, one million AIDS orphans have grown up stigmatized, nursing sick parents, and living under the cloud of their parents’ immanent death. Sylvia Namakhwa, a Malawian who directs the SFK program in her country told the group that she viewed SFK as a life-saver for the kids she teaches. “Before SFK, the kids regularly wound up on the streets or in prisons. It was every man for himself. Now they have a way to cope, and a reason to join together.” In her world, spirituality is not high minded, but practical. With the resilience they develop through experiencing SFK, Namakhwa’s Malawian youngsters are more likely to stay in the shelters where they can receive the minimal food and social services, rather than taking to crime.
So—why should kids learn to be spiritual? To cope with the world we adults have created or allowed to be. When the day comes that we’ve create a social and global order based on spiritual values like connection and sharing, then hopefully children can learn to be spiritual just by watching us.
For more information on SFK, please go to: SFK.org. To join the Better Health Campaign, please sign up at: www.Health-Journalist.com For more on Donna Karan’s initiatives, go to www.urbanzen.org
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Posted by Alison Rose Levy at May 16, 2008 06:16 AM
Great!
Raising little Kabbalah kids in the image of Madonna. I'm sure the world can't wait for this phenom.
Self esteem born out of spirituality stripped of it's religious core is like Aarons' sons offering strange fire and being consumed by same.
Pass
Great Idea and thank you for sharing Alison. Just yesterday I thought I should join the PTA. Soo much still needs to be changed within our school systems and this idea sounds like change is coming our way : )
Alison,
Spirituality for sensual, emotional, mental and physical health -- now we're talking! Early brain development is critical the first years of a child's life. When spirituality is our frequency the brain/body supports health. Thanks for an inspiring post.
Trish~~
Alison, thank you for bringing the attention to a beautiful subject,
Were and when do we start, when speaking of introducing spirituality to kids ? In teenage years? In childhood ? In infancy ? Would it be better to start at the time of the conception, or perhaps right at the core of our own relationships with each other here and now?
Where do we draw the line, when calling a child no longer a kid ? At ten ? At twenty ? At forty ? Of course we all are kids in comparison when it comes to growing up from the age of attachment to the worldly toys. Yet again The World we are toying with is urging us to grow up into being the children of God.
All this is true, yet speaking of here and now, of the actuality of the moment it's obvious we need to equip the children with the tools with which they can manage their now.
That was the concern of Maharishi Mahesh Yogi that the human brain receives the harmonizing vibrations which will help to unify the left and the right hemispheres of the brain in order to enliven all the areas of the brain to create the coherence in the brain-waves which in itself is the basis of the harmonious living-thinking-doing-enjoying the bliss that life is.
Our Teacher insisted that it is of no use to develop just any particular area of the brain, as it happens when the student studies a specific discipline chosen by him (for him), as his subject of study, often at the cost of an atrophy of its other parts. Instead it was suggested that in order to succeed in any area at its maximum one needs to have a total enlivening of all the brain potential, and the way to do it was simply to introduce the practice of meditation as early as possible in the child’s life.
Thus in the TM movement the kids have a special walking-mantra which does not require for a child to sit down and can be introduced from the age of four.
Talking about the schools, this might be interesting for those who wished to know what has been going on in the last couple of decade, when meditation has been introduced in schools as a part of its program. Please check a few links for your own consideration, you’d never regret it.
This is the one established by David Lynch Foundation:
http://www.istpp.org/news/2007_11_dl_foundation.html
These few are about the effect of the TM in the so called Stress-Free schools:
http://www.stressfreeschools.org/
http://commongroundmag.com/2004/06/tminschools0406.html
http://newsinitiative.org/story/2007/07/24/transcendental_meditation_in_schools
With Love to all
Jai Guru Dev
This is a very important lesson for anyone to learn, and I appreciate the idea that children can be taught to understand the importance of being spiritually aware. The concept of the beads becoming a necklace is an important point. In humanity, in a village, what is the thread that holds the people together? What is the link that causes them to become a community? All are individually simply another person, but some common thread causes them to become a community? Is it simply the thought of I am my brother's keeper? Or is it something much more concrete? An agreement? A covenant? At what point, does humanity become only neighbors and friends instead of family?
Thanks for the lesson. I cannot help but wonder at the children of the world who need to learn that to give is to receive. It is a great gift just to learn of the plight of others sometimes, isn't it?
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This is a very important lesson for anyone to l
Alison, thank you for bringing the attention t
Alison,
Spirituality for sensual, emoti
Great Idea and thank you for sharing Alison. Ju
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Raising little Kabbalah kids in
What a fantastic program!! Without real world, practical application spiritual awareness is useless.
Thanks for sharing, this is hopeful news.